What kinds of development occur in your baby's first month?
Babies are called newborns during their first month of
life. Although your newborn sleeps a lot, powerful changes are occurring in the
five major areas of development.
Physical development.
Watching your baby grow in size is part of the fun of being a new parent. Don't
be alarmed if your newborn loses some weight shortly after birth. This weight
usually is regained within 10 to 12 days. Most newborns gain about
4 oz (113.4 g) to
8 oz (226.8 g) per week and
grow about 1 in. (2.5 cm) to
1.5 in. (3.8 cm) in the first
month.
Cognitive development. Cognition is
the ability to think, learn, and remember. Your newborn's brain is developing
rapidly. You promote healthy brain growth every time you interact in a positive
way with your baby.
Emotional and social development. Newborns quickly learn to communicate. They seek
interaction with you and express how they feel with sounds and facial
expressions. At first, instinctual behaviors, such as crying when
uncomfortable, are your baby's ways to signal his or her needs. Soon your
newborn starts to subtly communicate and interact with you. For example, your
baby's eyes will track your movements, and his or her face will brighten when
you cuddle and talk soothingly. Even at a few days old, your baby may try to
mimic you sticking out your tongue.
Language development. Your newborn is listening to and absorbing the basic and
distinct sounds of language. This process forms the foundation for
speech.
Sensory and motor skills development. Newborns have all five senses. Your newborn quickly learns
to recognize your face, the sound of your voice, and how you smell. Your
newborn's sense of touch is especially developed, particularly around the
mouth. Your baby also has a strong sense of smell. After a few days, your
newborn hears fairly well and responds most noticeably to high-pitched and loud
sounds. Your baby recognizes and prefers sweet tastes to those that are sour,
bitter, or salty. Vision is developing quickly but is believed to be the
weakest of the senses.
Motor skills develop as your baby's muscles and nerves
work together. Movements are mostly controlled by
reflexes, such as the rooting reflex, which is when a
newborn's head turns and his or her mouth "reaches" toward a touch. Hands are
tightly fisted when the baby is alert.
How can you help your newborn grow and develop?
The most important way to help your baby grow and develop is to
communicate with him or her. Use a high-pitched voice, gentle touch, hugs, and
kisses. An environment that is rich in stimulation, comfort, and loving
attention enhances many areas of a baby's development, including brain growth
and intelligence.1 Research shows that babies who are
talked to throughout their first few years usually learn language skills more
easily than those who are not. Newborns are more interested in their caregivers
than they are in toys or other objects.
How do you know if you are caring for your newborn correctly?
You may feel overwhelmed during your baby's first
month and wonder: "Am I doing this right?" No previous life experiences prepare
first-time parents for this new role. It is completely normal to be confused
and frustrated by your newborn.
You will become familiar with
your newborn's needs by paying attention to his or her behavior. For example, a
fussy cry and turning away usually means "change what we are doing," and an
alert, bright-eyed look means "I am interested in what's going on." Trusting
your instincts-to cuddle and rock a crying baby or to talk to your baby in a
high-pitched "baby talk" voice-is usually the "right" thing to do. You will
begin to develop a rhythm with your baby, where you will be able to read each
other's needs and moods.
What kinds of checkups should your newborn have?
Your baby's doctor will likely recommend a specific schedule of routine
newborn visits. Newborns normally have checkups scheduled 3 to 5 days after
they go home from the hospital, and by 1 month of age.
Do not be
afraid to call your baby's doctor any time you have concerns about your
newborn's health or general care. It is normal and expected for parents of
newborns to have questions and to make frequent visits and calls to the
doctor.
Physical development. Your newborn
gains about 0.7 oz (19.8 g) per
day, or about 4 oz (113.4 g) to
8 oz (226.8 g) per week in the
first month. He or she grows about
1 in. (2.5 cm) to
1.5 in. (3.8 cm) in length by
age 1 month.2
Cognitive development. Newborn thinking begins with
simple inborn responses to needs.
Emotional and social development. Your newborn immediately initiates interaction with you-for
example, by moving his or her arms and legs-and expresses himself or
herself.
Language development. Your newborn listens to the
sounds, patterns, and rhythms of language, which lay the foundation for speech
development.
Sensory and motor development. The five
senses,
reflexes, and nervous system all play a role in how
your newborn acts and reacts to the world around him or her.
You may wonder whether your baby's daily patterns are
typical. During your baby's first few weeks, most of your time will be spent
simply making sure your baby is fed every few hours, comforted, and held, and
has his or her diaper changed. Pay attention to cues-you will begin to discover
your baby's individual needs and preferences.
The following
information can give you an idea about what to expect about your baby's:
Reflexes. Babies are born with a number of automatic
physical responses that help them negotiate their world.
Sleeping and eating patterns. A newborn's main routines center around these two
activities, although by about 3 weeks of age, he or she begins to socialize
more.
Diaper habits. You can expect to change your newborn's
diaper frequently. The specific number of times a day varies and in part
depends on whether you feed your baby breast milk or formula.
Crying. Newborns cry when they are hungry, tired,
overstimulated, or otherwise uncomfortable. They may also cry for no apparent
reason and be difficult to console.
Common Concerns
Although you may feel prepared for
your baby, the reality of the constant care a newborn needs can shock many
parents. A newborn affects your life in ways that simply can't be anticipated.
It is only through experience that parents can fully understand the impact of
these new responsibilities and how your expected roles change. It is normal to
shift frequently between feeling confident and ecstatic one minute, and
drained, scared, and unsure the next.
When you realize that your
baby is physically completely dependent on you, you may worry whether you are
giving your baby the best care. Common issues in this first month
include:
Umbilical cord care. Basic care of your
baby's umbilical cord is keeping it clean and dry. Gently clean the umbilical
cord stump and the surrounding skin at least one time a day and as needed
during diaper changes or baths. Gently pat the area dry with a soft cloth. The
stump should fall off within a couple of weeks, although sometimes it takes
longer.
Your newborn's sleepiness. Especially in the first few
days after birth, your baby may seem to be in a distant world, only pausing
long enough in this one to wake you up for a little snack or a diaper change.
Your baby will become gradually more alert throughout the month. By the end of
the first month, your baby will likely begin developing sleeping and eating
patterns. Generally, your baby will likely have periods where he or she is
awake for 2 or 3 hours straight. Around 3 months of age, the patterns will
become more predictable.
Your exhaustion and sleep deprivation.
Although newborns sleep a lot, they also wake up a lot for brief periods and
need feeding, diapering, and attention. Nights of long, restorative sleep can
seem a foggy memory to parents. This may be especially true for mothers, who
start with a deficit after the physical exertion of and recovery from giving
birth. Be sure to ask for help when you need it. Don't hesitate to ask a family
member, friend, or neighbor to help you with daily tasks, such as laundry,
cleaning, or making meals. This can help you to nap while your baby sleeps
instead of doing chores.
Worry over whether your baby is getting
enough to eat. This is especially a common concern among
breast-feeding mothers. As long as your baby feeds
regularly (every 2 hours in the first few weeks, then 2 to 4 hours over the
next few weeks), he or she should be fine. Sometimes you may need to
wake a sleepy baby to eat. During your well-child
checkups, your doctor will monitor your baby's weight gain and growth. Also, be
aware of general
signs that your baby is getting enough breast milk, such as wetting about 6 to
8 cloth diapers-or 4 to 6 disposable diapers-and having at least 1 or 2 bowel
movements in a 24-hour period.
Newborn jaundice. Many babies get jaundice (also called hyperbilirubinemia) in
their first few days of life. Jaundice is a condition in which the skin and the
whites of a baby's eyes appear yellow because of a buildup of bilirubin in the
blood. Bilirubin is a yellow-brown substance produced by the breakdown of red
blood cells. Although jaundice should be monitored, it most often does not
require medical treatment. Usually, increasing the number of feedings helps
reduce jaundice. Phototherapy, in which a baby is placed under special lights
or fiber-optic blankets, may be used if bilirubin levels are too high. Keep
your baby's well-child appointments with your doctor, or call anytime if you
are concerned about jaundice. For more information, see the topic
Jaundice in Newborns.
A misshapen head.
Immediately after birth, especially after lengthy vaginal deliveries, your
baby's head may look misshapen. This is normal, and your baby's head will most
likely take on a more normal shape within a few days to weeks after delivery.
But in rare instances, a misshapen head can be a sign of an abnormal condition,
such as
craniosynostosis. After your baby is born and during
your baby's well-child checkups, your doctor will monitor your baby's head
shape and skull growth. If you are concerned that your newborn's head has not
returned to a normal shape within several weeks of delivery, talk with your
doctor. For more information, see the topic
Craniosynostosis.
It is also normal to question your feelings for your baby.
A bond doesn't necessarily happen the moment you set eyes on your child. But
you will develop stronger feelings and love for your baby every day. For some
parents, it takes time to develop this bond, especially when the baby's
physical demands take a great deal of time and energy. Talk to your doctor if
you do not feel that you are bonding with your baby in the first week or
two.
Also keep in mind:
Your baby will soon be able to engage with you.
But this first month, your baby may seem to be in a semi-conscious state.
Sleeping and eating are a newborn's main activities. He or she will gradually
emerge from this groggy state, and you can rest assured that your loving care
will be rewarded with interaction very soon.
Gradually within the
first month, your newborn will begin to look more "baby-like." Although many
parents don't like to admit it, even to themselves, it is common to feel
disappointed that their baby isn't as cute as they had hoped. If you feel this
way, don't despair. Labor and delivery takes its toll on your baby's
appearance. He or she may have an odd-shaped head, swollen or squinty eyes,
blotchy skin, and a flattened nose in the first few weeks. Soon, these
irregularities will fade away and your baby will start to develop more
normal-looking features.
Your baby may have a
birthmark that is noticed at birth or within this
first month. Most birthmarks need no treatment. They often fade as a child
grows older. But sometimes a birthmark needs treatment or close monitoring.
Talk to your doctor if you have concerns. For more information, see the topic
Birthmarks.
Although you will go through some major adjustments to this
new little person in your life, your baby's first month is also a period of
amazing growth and change. Treasure these first weeks as you gradually
introduce your baby to the world.
Promoting Healthy Growth and Development
For healthy
growth and development, newborns need physical and emotional care. You enhance
development and give your newborn a sense of security and being loved by:
Feeding on demand. Respond to your
baby's hunger cues, no matter how frequent.
Encouraging emotional bonding. Your baby needs to be close to you and to anticipate that you
will respond to his or her needs.
Preparing for sibling rivalry. If you
have an older child, prepare him or her for the arrival of a new baby in the
home.
Although your baby's needs are basic, it is important to
respond promptly to his or her cues and to recognize safety issues.
Reduce the risk of
sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS) by always placing
your baby to sleep on his or her back (not on the stomach). Make sure that the
crib mattress is firm and covered by a sheet and that there are no pillows or
blankets that could block the baby's mouth or nose. For more information, see
the topic
Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS).
Never leave your newborn alone or in
the care of an older child while the baby is:
In the bathtub.
On a changing
table or other place where he or she could fall or get injured.
Post emergency numbers near the phone. Include
information about how to reach your doctor, friends, and neighbors. Keep your
local Poison Control Center number handy, too. Older siblings sometimes give
newborns medicines or other dangerous substances.
Never shake your
baby. A baby's skull is not developed enough to protect it against injury.
Shaking your baby in anger or frustration can lead to
shaken baby syndrome. Get help immediately if you feel
that you or another caregiver might hurt your baby. Call
911 if it is an emergency. Call your
health professional, friend, relative, or parent hotline if you are feeling
overwhelmed to the point that you feel you are not able to care for your
baby.
Call your doctor immediately if you notice anything that concerns you. You are the
expert on your baby. Although usually everything is fine, do not be afraid to
contact your health professional for any reason.
Physical
problems to watch for in your newborn include:
An umbilical cord stump that looks infected, as
is indicated by pus or reddened skin at the base of the cord.
Not having regular bowel movements. Newborns younger than 2 weeks
should have at least 1 or 2 bowel movements a day. Babies older than 2 weeks
can go 2 days and sometimes longer between bowel movements. It's usually okay
if it takes longer than 2 days, especially if your baby is feeding well and
seems comfortable.
Be sure to call your health professional if your
newborn:
Cries in a peculiar manner or for an unusual
length of time.
Son has
circumcision problems. Signs may include
greater-than-expected bleeding at the circumcision site, a bloodstained area
larger than the size of a grape on his diaper or wound dressing, or indications
of infection (such as swelling and redness). For more information, see the
topic
Circumcision.
Has a
rectal temperature less than
97.8
°F (36.6
°C) or more than
100.4
°F (38
°C).
Is
rarely awake and does not wake up for feedings, or seems too tired or
uninterested to eat.
Talk to your doctor if you are concerned about the
following:
Your baby seems to be acting odd, even though
you can't identify exactly what concerns you.
You feel that you are
unable to nurture your newborn.
You feel that you are unable to
emotionally connect with your newborn. Although it is normal to feel some
distance at first, you should develop increasing feelings for your baby during
the first week or two.
Your baby's first checkup
begins in the hospital right after birth when a health professional assesses
the baby's
Apgar scores. This test checks certain physical traits
to help determine whether your newborn needs any interventions or special
monitoring right away. Temperature and vital signs are always closely monitored
during the baby's first 6 hours. Your baby may also have the following soon
after birth:
A hearing assessment. Many states require
hearing screening on all babies who are born in hospitals because speech and
language have a better chance of developing normally when hearing problems are
caught and treated early. The
United States Preventive Services Task Force
recommends that all newborns be screened for hearing loss.3
A thorough physical exam. Within 24 hours of
birth, a doctor will examine your baby, check his or her breathing and
heartbeat, and assess the baby's ability to pass urine and
stool.
Measurements of length, head circumference, and
weight.
Antibiotic eyedrops. Because
newborns can get eye infections from bacteria in the birth canal, some states
require that antibiotic eyedrops or ointment be given.
Newborn screening. Your baby has a sample of blood taken from
the heel. This sample is used to test for
phenylketonuria and other inherited diseases.
Well-child visits
In the first weeks after birth,
your baby begins a series of exams by a health professional, sometimes called
well-child visits. Health professionals have
individual approaches to the timing of these appointments. Newborns normally
have office appointments scheduled 3 to 5 days after they go home from the
hospital, and by 1 month of age. During one or more of these visits, your baby
will have:
Length, weight, and head circumference
measurements taken. These measurements are plotted on a growth chart and are
compared to previous and later markings to make sure the baby is growing as
expected.
A physical exam. The doctor examines your baby
thoroughly for any problems. The doctor also assesses the baby's
reflexes and general development and observes how you
and your baby interact. You are asked questions about how the baby and the rest
of the family are doing, how the baby is eating and sleeping, and whether you
have noticed any changes in behavior.
A blood sample taken from the
baby's heel (called a heel prick) to test for certain inherited diseases such
as
phenylketonuria (PKU). Although your baby may have
been tested for PKU at birth, there is a risk of inaccurate test results when
the test is done within 48 hours of delivery. A second PKU test should be done
several days later, usually at your baby's first well-baby visit. For more
information, see the topic
Phenylketonuria (PKU).
Immunizations.
Individual and series immunizations are started or continued at these
well-child visits. Your health professional will provide you with a schedule so
that you know how many injections to expect at each visit. For more
information, see the topic
Immunizations.
Routine checkups are a good time for parents to ask about
what to expect in the weeks to come. You may find it helpful to go to your
baby's checkups with a prepared
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Other Places To Get Help
Books
Taking Care of Your Child: A Parent's Illustrated Guide to Complete Medical Care
Author/Editor:
R.H. Pantell J.F. Fries D.M. Vickery
Publisher:
Da Capo Press
11 Cambridge Center
Cambridge, MA 02142
Publication Date:
2006
This book provides practical tips to help you manage your child's
medical care. It contains information and decision charts about growth and
development, child and adolescent health problems, immunizations, emergencies
and injuries, healthy weight, and more.
Your Baby's First Year
Author/Editor:
American Academy of Pediatrics S.P. Shevlov, Editor-in-Chief
Publisher:
Bantam Dell
1745 Broadway
New York, NY 10019
Publication Date:
2005
This book provides practical information to help parents and
grandparents with all aspects of infant care. You can find a month-to-month
guide that helps you know what to expect in terms of growth, behavior, and
development. There is also information on health conditions, feeding,
immunizations, emergencies, safety, child care, and more.
Online Resource
The Happiest Baby
How to calm crying babies
Web Address:
www.thehappiestbaby.com/default.asp
This Web site provides information from Dr. Harvey Karp about how
to calm crying babies. You can also see excerpts from his book, The Happiest Baby on the Block: The New Way to Calm Crying and Help Your Newborn Baby Sleep Longer. And you can find out about related
classes in your area.
Organizations
American Academy of Pediatrics
141 Northwest Point Boulevard
Elk Grove Village, IL 60007-1098
Phone:
(847) 434-4000
Fax:
(847) 434-8000
E-mail:
kidsdocs@aap.org
Web Address:
www.aap.org
The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) offers a
variety of educational materials, such as links to publications about parenting
and general growth and development. Immunization information, safety and
prevention tips, AAP guidelines for various conditions, and links to other
organizations are also available.
American Association of Poison Control
Centers
3201 New Mexico Avenue
Suite 330
Washington, DC 20016
Phone:
1-800-222-1222 for poisoning emergencies and any questions about poisons and poison prevention (202) 362-7217 for calls that are not poison exposure questions
E-mail:
info@aapcc.org for messages that are not poison exposure questions
Web Address:
www.aapcc.org
The American Association of Poison Control Centers (AAPCC)
provides contact information for poison control centers located throughout the
United States. The organization also gives poison prevention and education
information, such as brochures, fact sheets, and general tips. There is also
information for health professionals, such as current treatment guidelines.
Bright Futures
P.O. Box 571272
Washington, DC 20057-1272
Phone:
(202) 784-9772
Fax:
(202) 784-9777
E-mail:
brightfutures@ncemch.org
Web Address:
www.brightfutures.org
The Bright Futures Web site offers current information
about health promotion and health care needs of infants, children, teens,
families, and communities. Bright Futures is maintained by the National Center
for Education in Maternal and Child Health at Georgetown University.
KidsHealth for Parents, Children, and
Teens
4600 Touchton Road East, Building 200
Suite 500
Jacksonville, FL 32246
Phone:
(904) 232-4100
Fax:
(904) 232-4125
Web Address:
www.kidshealth.org
This Web site is sponsored by Nemours Foundation. It has
a wide range of information about children's health, from allergies and
diseases to normal growth and development (birth to adolescence). This Web site
offers separate areas for kids, teens, and parents, each providing
age-appropriate information that the child or parent can understand. You can
sign up to get weekly e-mails about your area of interest.
March of Dimes
1275 Mamaroneck Avenue
White Plains, NY 10605
Phone:
(914) 997-4488
Web Address:
www.marchofdimes.com
The March of Dimes tries to improve the health of babies by
preventing birth defects, premature birth, and early death. March of Dimes
supports research, community services, education, and advocacy to save babies'
lives. The organization's Web site has information on premature birth, birth
defects, birth defects testing, pregnancy, and prenatal care. You can sign up
to get a free newsletter and also explore Understanding Your Newborn: An
Interactive Program for New Parents.
Pathways Awareness Foundation
150 North Michigan Avenue
Chicago, IL 60601
Phone:
1-800-955-CHILD (1-800-955-2445)
Web Address:
www.pathwaysawareness.org
Pathways Awareness Foundation is a national non-profit organization
dedicated to raising awareness about the benefit of early detection and early
therapy for children with physical movement delays. The Web site has
information about children's physical development including a growth and
development chart where you can track a child's physical, play, and speech
milestones from 3 to 15 months.
Zero to Three
2000 M Street NW
Suite 200
Washington, DC 20036
Phone:
(202) 638-1144
Fax:
(202) 638-0851
Web Address:
www.zerotothree.org
Zero to Three is a national nonprofit organization whose aim is to
strengthen and support families and promote the healthy development of babies
and toddlers. The organization provides information about growth and
development and about health professional training. It also works to promote
public awareness about the importance of giving children a healthy start and
solid developmental foundation in the first three years of life.
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